Dating sites oldermen
I never babysat the kids in my neighborhood once; I couldn’t relate to kids at all. I would crush on older guys when I was 13, but I really didn’t start actually dating an older guy until I was 26; he was 40.
That relationship was fun and short-lived, but what I've learned since then has taken me a long way when dating older men.
I have nothing against guys my age; I have tried dating them, but I have constantly come across the following:- They’re not ambitious enough, or they don't have a go-getter attitude.- They’re not financially stable.- They still want to date around.- They have had baby mama or ex-wife drama.- They don’t have their sh*t together.
I’m not saying every guy in my age group is like this, but overall, my personal experience hasn’t been fulfilling for me.
These are all the stereotypical reasons people tend to think older men love to date younger women.
And while these things may be true for some men, the attraction is a little more complicated than that.
This is a need that is different for men and women at different stages in their lives.
Young adult women typically have more of a need for connection.
This is another reason older men love to date younger women.
While they will create careers, they also want to eventually create a family.
On the other hand, young adult men are more focused on the need for significance.
A young woman is compatible with him in that she is also seeking more connection.
He may even be thinking of starting a second family with her so he can "get it right" this time around.