Reply to dating ad
Here's the ad I placed: Wouldn't it be surprisingly wonderful for you to meet a very special man on the Internet? I'm intelligent, direct, very honest and a little goofballish (in a positive way... I have a somewhat sarcastic sense of humor but I know when to restrain myself.
I like to talk and love to listen to other people and usually don't have problems making friends.
Because, as mentioned in chapter 1, the high quality girls will simply not have time to read all the replies they get. The truth is that if you get a reply to your first email it means that the woman liked it, probably read through your ad and is VERY interested to find more about you. (xxx) xxx-xxxx" Chapter 4 - The First Phone Call I don't think there are any misconceptions here so let's make it very clear: the purpose of the first phone call is to close for a date. Call during the evening but not too late (8pm works fine).
I found the first email to be the most crucial element of "online seduction". Questions start running through her mind: "Is he for real? The email you will get will have a lot of questions and you have to capitalize on her high interest level and move things forward. The mindset you should have is this: the Internet personals are nothing but a pool of potential phone numbers and first dates. After you answer her questions in the second email, you end it with a sentence like this: "Lisa, how about we have a little chat sometime? If someone answers the phone, ask to speak with her (don't assume she's the one picking up the phone). Chapter 5 - The First Date When you finally meet her you will immediately know if there's a chance or not.
There is nothing, nothing more attractive than a man who is confident, and confidence is, frankly, easier to telegraph via email than in person, where all kinds of physical tells can give you and your insecurities away. In addition to this being inherently stupid, it doesn’t work, particularly not these days, because now we all know what negging is, and, yo, we ain’t haven’ it. and you are not afraid to use it with your polysyllabic vocabulary!
If a man walks up to a woman and promptly insults her, the theory goes, she will be putty in his hands.
They assume (and rightfully so) that all the men worth contacting have already sent them a reply.I'm looking for someone with a great sense of humor (sarcasm preferred), who can talk about anything and everything, who likes to have fun both outdoors and indoors and who is independent yet not afraid to let someone into her life and share her emotions. Okay, so this seemed just a little bit over the top didn't it?If this sounds like you then please reply and we'll take it from there. But I did use a very similar text and got some very enthusiastic replies!This is not some lady who browsed your ad and replied out of boredom, this is a lady that wants to get to know you.Okay, so I'm not trying to tell you that your ad is totally unimportant, but it's definitely not the most important thing.