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Smartphones, texting, email and online dating are the current vehicle for this behavior and sexual dynamic, but let's not pretend that this is a new issue.The underlying sexual processes and dynamics have always been with us.Many women are genuinely bothered by receiving such pictures and view it as an unwelcome intrusion.Some feminist writers have described this as a form of sexual assault, and a way in which men assert the dominance of their sexuality over that of women.She was surprised that overwhelmingly, men loved it, found her boldness both sexy and fun, and wanted to meet her.So, again, we have evidence that men are sending such pictures because they think others will like them, as much as they do.People who are offended and grossed out at such images would like them banned.They want men to understand that such behaviors are rude, unacceptable and should simply stop.
The more uproar, outrage and disgust that such pics get, the more powerful some men feel.They feel some pride that their penis generated this strong reaction. But if we remove as much of the reinforcement, including negative attention, many of these men might view this behavior as ultimately unrewarding.So, shaming, banning, flaming strategies are unlikely to be successful. It's important that women, and men, understand that this behavior, even when it feels distasteful and rude, is not personal.Ultimately, the answer here lies in greater dialogue with men and women, over what they actually want in sexual communications.This reach some of these men, those who are genuinely not understanding some sexual differences.